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My girlfriend cries after (or when) she comes really hard.

Anyone else (male, female, or whatever) experience this? Why does it happen? I've asked her, not in the heat of the moment, and she can't give me a satisfactory answer. Thoughts?

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    I'll do it every once in a while, if it's super intense. I have no idea why. It's not sad or anything weird. I think it just naturally happens when you have that much of a release. Not anything to worry about.

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  • 5025_12_small

    I've cried after I came a few times. It has happened after very very intense orgasms. It was a general emotional release - not a sad kind of crying. Or, if there was grief it was grief that was already there + unrelated to the orgasm. The orgasm just released the bottled up emotion.

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    I cry almost every time. It's just an intense emotional release that radiates out from your g-spot to the tips of your toes and the tear ducts of your eyes. Crying is the best release, so why not cry after you cum?

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  • Captainamerica70annvar_1__small

    I've heard of this.
    I think it's just normal for some women when they come really hard.
    It can be disconcerting, but as long as they seem alright afterwards and aren't complaining or seem injured. As long as they report they're OK, you should take them at their word.

    I've never experienced it but once, after about a month separation from my new wife when we were attempting to move across country, and she had been alone for many weeks. She settled down, and we've never seen the behavior again. It was just a release.

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  • Ali_small

    She probably can't give you a satisfactory answer because she doesn't know where it comes from herself.

    When l attended massage school, one of the topics we covered was emotional release that happens on the massage table. There are several reasons it can happen, but no one specific explanation for all of them; massage just tends to be a trigger for some people, and there's not necessarily a negative reason behind that.

    l suspect that it's much the same with sex for certain individuals. lt could simply be that deep love combined with a powerful orgasm is enough to produce this response.

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    It is because the organism causes the ruphies to wear off and she realizes where she is, what she is doing and who she is doing it with.

    btw, I am not trying to be mean, I just had a good joke and could not resist.

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  • Photo_46_small

    I had this happen to me once, scared the hell out of me. Kinda ruined things too, 'cause she then said that it was because she felt so bad about cheating on her boyfriend.

    Ooh, and the first girl I slept with cried after sex too, and she said it was because she was so in love with me and couldn't wait to get married. She was also a triflin' bitch though.

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  • Snagglepuss_small

    I would think it is that she is really really disappointed in your performance. But I'm gay and have never yet to experience crying, or anyone asking for their money back.

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