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• I've always just sort of fallen into the situation. Either they were already a friend who I ended up hooking up with, or someone who I hooked up with randomly, then became friends with. Hence the friends with benefits part. More helpful:  Random hookups are usually the best place to start.  Then bonus points if you keep hooking up.  But that can't happen if you don't suggest it.  It's a matter of turning a potential one night stand into a continuous thing. You say that you don't really have trouble with the opposite sex- so I'm assuming you can get some relatively easily? I really think it's more about taking hold/control of a situation and forming it into that.  If you have a friend who has drunkenly confessed their desires or interest in you- there's a good start.  If there's someone you've hooked up with who has stayed in contact- BINGO.   RM answered in Sex 17 days ago | Report 2 0 Comment on this answer Enter a comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit

• Are you cute? If so, let's be friends. erleichda answered in Sex 14 days ago | Report 1 0 Comment on this answer Enter a comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit

• I really think it's more about making it clear what you want and don't want and ending things if they get too complicated. Otherwise you meet them the same way you meet other potential relationships. Arsenic7 answered in Sex 16 days ago | Report 1 0 Comment on this answer Enter a comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit

• I can't do it man, I'm too much of a romantic Matt answered in Sex 16 days ago | Report 1 0 Comment on this answer Enter a comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit

• Well, I would think that the first step is to become "friends" with someone of the gender that you want to befriend. That would be the first hurdle. Then, you'd need to feel comfortable talking about how you'd like to take it to the next level, or drop hints about how horny you are, were, would like to be, but have no outlets... etc. Good luck. Let us know how this works for you. Credit me if it works, OK? "Cagey" answered in Sex 5 days ago | Report 0 0 Comment on this answer Enter a comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit

• Craigslist. There's no magic skill set, you just DO it. :) Violet DaGrinder answered in Sex 12 days ago | Report 0 0 Comment on this answer Enter a comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit

• I would suggest going to your favorite social club, church, library, book discussion group, etc and meeting people. That's the best way to break the "shy" problem, and once you have something in common with them, the rest comes more easily. Of course, if you're catholic, and it's a Jewish singles group you're visiting, there maybe some problems, but you get the idea... O my captain answered in Sex 17 days ago | Report 0 1 3 comments by Kip Waddle, O my captain, and "Cagey"… Cruising church for non-committal sexual hook-ups is kind of sleazy. Kip Waddle commented 17 days ago | Report Not necessarily. I didn't suggest cruising church at all. I suggested that he pursue something he was sincerely interested in, and from that interest, find other friends. Whether or not they are into non-committal sexual hook-ups is entirely up to them. remember, even church goers need physical love, too... I recall a nice wholesome young gal that my mother tried to match me up with in my church. I wasn't buying it, cause she didn't have a very outgoing personality, and though I counted her as a friend amoung my church youth group, I never would have considered her for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. I learned at a 5 year class reunion that she was an unwed mother. Go figure! (Who would have thought that she had desires??!!) O my captain commented 17 days ago | Report oh, I like this approach. Join a group with similar values and interests, and make friends in that circle, first. "Cagey" commented 5 days ago | Report Enter a comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit

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