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When attending a restaurant's "soft opening," what are your expectations regarding the bill?

This weekend I attended the soft opening of a new restaurant on Eastlake, and based upon my prior experience with soft openings I expected to be charged for only my drinks, if anything at all. Much to my surprise I was presented with a full bill. After conferring with numerous other industry folk who were equally shocked, I decided to pose the question to a broader audience: Am I out of line for being surprised to receive a bill? Isn't a soft opening meant to get people excited, spread the word, and try things out on a forgiving audience before the big opening night? What was the point of the sign on the door that read "Private Event" if people were going to be charged full price? Perhaps I wouldn't be so bothered by this if the service was decent, the silverware was polished, the food wasn't bland, and I didn't get a splinter in my thumb from the knife.

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  • Jane_small

    I haven't actually attended a soft opening myself but I was always under the impression that customers did not pay for the food at them as well. The soft opening is to work the kinks of service out, and I personally would prefer to not pay to have someone practice on me.

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  • Ali_small

    l've been to a ton of soft openings over my years in the industry, and have only been to one that did this as well. Apparently it was the owners' first restaurant, and they simply assumed a 'soft open' just meant a private party instead of open to the public. Like your experience, l was unimpressed with the food and the service, and had l been attending a public opening, l would have been bummed l'd wasted my money on it, so when l was expecting to pay for the drinks and got the full bill, l had the same response, along with everyone l attended the party with.

    Of course, the general consensus among other industry people who went was that it wasn't much to write home about, the restaurant's business was sporadic and the reviews weren't glowing, and they closed down after a year or so.

    As you said, the point of a soft open is to get a good, solid clientele in the industry, who are familiar with and appreciate a great dining experience, and will pass it on to THEIR clientele. That is precisely what you're comping them for - their experienced feedback. Fail on the soft open, and you're likely to fail in general.

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  • Avatar_default

    I am opening a restaurant myself in a few weeks, and we are doing a soft opening for friends and family. We will be doing a set menu with 3 options for a main course and a few options for appetizer. We plan on charging a set price at a BIG discount . The price will be all inclusive: app, entree, beverage and dessert.
    I might add we are a small family run place. It would nearly swamp us to have to give the food away. This is simply an opportunity to invite people who WANT to see us succeed have a chance to taste our food and who will be a little forgiving on our soft opening as we work out the kinks. The price will be known and no one will get any suprises. I think the people who were shocked in the previous posts by receieving a bill shouldn't have expected a hand out.

    BTW....I have also worked in top of the line places with tons of financial backing who had a soft opening and charged something.

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  • Tomato_small

    I don't know the current standard in the industry, but during my restaurant years in the late 80s, a soft opening usually meant only family and friends, and all but drinks were free. Though, I did attend one with a prix-fixe that I assumed covered the food costs, as it was a small, indy restaurant without big money backers. But then, the price (maybe $10 for several courses of small-plate samples of their full menu -- a lot of food) was totally reasonable and everyone knew what they were expected to pay. So, yeah, new restaurant on Eastlake (it's part of Serafina, so certainly not a new venture by someone not "in the know" about soft openings) - you're a little bit tacky.

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  • King_dd_small

    I think management should have posted a sign or made it clear prior to the event. On the otherhand, it's rude to expect that the meal would be free. NO BUSINESS can stay in business if they give it away for free.

    Next time, ASK FIRST before ordering...

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